Dickie “Dick/Rich” Nelson McDermott was born April 15,1952 and passed away on

November 15, 2025, at the New York State Veteran’s home in Batavia, NY, after battling

dementia. His departure marks the end of a life defined by strength, service, and quiet

generosity.

A proud combat veteran of the United States Army and a Purple Heart recipient, Dick

successfully completed the Airborne course at Fort Benning, Georgia on December 19,

1971. He served with distinction in the Light Infantry as a Pathfinder and Paratrooper. His

22 years of military service reflected his enduring courage and commitment to duty—

qualities that remained with him throughout his life.

Following his retirement from the NY Guard in 2004, where he served as a Sergeant Major,

he continued to demonstrate his unwavering commitment to the military by supporting

fellow veterans through his volunteer efforts at the VA in Canandaigua, NY , founding the

Amvets Post #332 in Farmington, NY, and serving as an active member of the National

Pathfinder Association; embodying the principle,

“First In – Last Out.

”

Beyond his military service, Dick gave generously of his time as a volunteer in his

community. He served as a member of the Farmington-Victor Kiwanis Club where he

participated in various activities, focusing on improving lives of children and living their

mission, “One Child and one Community at a time”. In 2018, The Farmington Chamber of

Commerce presented Dick with an award for the Citizen of the year for Farmington, NY.,

recognizing his formal efforts and simple acts of kindness, both which made a meaningful

impact on those fortunate enough to know him.

Despite his esteemed service and numerous accolades, Dick remained characteristically

humble. When asked about his military career, he would simply smile and say he was “just

a grunt.

” This modest self-assessment reflected the quiet strength and unpretentious

nature that defined him throughout his life.

Dick found joy in many pursuits. He enjoyed playing a leisurely game of golf, pickleball,

camping (without a fire), and collecting coins—a hobby that reflected both patience and

curiosity. He adored his cats, Queenie and Sarge, who sadly passed away before him, but

who had certainly trained him well. He had a deep fondness for eagles, symbols of freedom

and strength that resonated with his own values. He also loved playing games and going

out to eat, activities that brought him closer to family and friends.

Dick was predeceased by his parents, Margaritte (Pritchard) and Walter McDermott; his

sister, Barbara White; his brothers, Jim McDermott and Elmer McDermott and his in-laws,

John and Bevereley Tucker.He is lovingly remembered by his wife of 25 years, Diane McDermott; his son, Scott

McDermott (Michelle Evley); granddaughters Jessica McDermott and Kellie McDermott;

stepdaughter, Shara Bolster; stepson Scott (Jen) Gallaro; and grandsons Owen Bolster and

Kaleb Bolster, (who lovingly referred to him as “Pepa”). Dick also left behind many nieces,

nephews and friends who will deeply miss him. The memories of Rich/Dick—as a husband,

father, grandfather, uncle and friend will remain cherished always.

His family will miss his quiet and subtle presence. May his cherished memory provide

solace to all who had the privilege of knowing him. Calling hours are scheduled for

December 6, 2025, from 1:00 PM to 4:00 PM at Jarmusz Cotton Funeral Home, located at

26 Maple Ave in Victor, NY. A private military burial will take place on April 17, 2026, at Bath

National Cemetery, situated on San Juan Ave, Bath, NY 14810. In lieu of flowers,

contributions may be made in Dick’s memory to Amvets Post #332 – PO Box 25291,

Farmington NY 14425 or through AMVETSNY332.org.