We mournfully announce the unexpected passing of Mabel May Martin on March the 22nd, 2026 at the age of 77 holding the hand of her loving daughter Jami. Mabel was a lifelong resident of Shortsville, NY. She was predeceased by her mother, Mabel May Buckman and father, William J Buckman, nephew Donald Castle, sister in law Bigal Buckman, grandson Christian VanderKamp, amazing friends, Vern Sanford, Eileen Rogers and Lifelong Bestie Rosanna.
Her life was characterized by her dedication to her family. Mabel lived a vibrant life full of love, kindness and joy beside her beloved husband Eugene Martin. She loved going to auctions where she acquired many wonderful friends she considered family. She enjoyed vacationing in NC and going to festivals\carnivals and theme parks (She LOVED rollercoasters!) and bands including Ruby Shoes, Flint Creek and Boy George whom she saw live at the NYS Fair. She was happiest when she was spending time with her family! She enjoyed putting together puzzles with her husband and family, playing solitaire on her devices, reading and doing word searches! She was a lover of anything Coke Cola and lighthouses and had a huge collection of both! She loved people and would help anyone in need! She donated religiously to Wounded Warriors and St Jude Hospital. She touched many hearts and will be deeply missed! Her spirit will forever inspire those who knew her! Mabel is survived by her beloved husband Eugene Martin, Loving daughter Jami (Jay) Dailey, grandchildren, Joey,Isabella and Dominic Mallo, Laci (Henry) Dailey, Alicia (Nick) Heers, Liam, Finnick, Rowan and Persephone VanderKamp, Beloved brother, William Buckman and sister Rosemary (Denton) Backus, nieces Sherral and Susie Castle, nephews John (Christine) Castle, Kettheth(Brenda) Backus, Brother in law Terry Martin, Adopted daughters Bethany Gleason Bushard and Mary (Jay) Mitchell and adopted grandson Cedric Mitchell.
She was a source of endless gut hurting laughter, a force of nature and the heart of her family! Her home was always filled with memories and warmth and she brought joy to everyone she met! She leaves behind a legacy of love cherished by her daughter Jami, husband Eugene, grandchildren and many, many friends! She had such a kind spirit and generous nature!
“My mind is at ease, My soul is at rest. Remembering all how I truly was blessed. Continue traditions, no matter how small, Go on with your lives, don’t stare at the wall! I miss you all dearly, so keep up your chin, Until that fine day we’re together again!”
The family would like to thank the nurses and Doctors at Strong Memorial Hospital and each and everyone for their prayers, calls and texts during their time of bereavement!
In lieu of donations you can send them to the Friends of Strong towards the stroke center on their website.
The family will be holding a celebration of life. Please contact Jami if you are interested in attending for details.
Mark and I are here for you all. So sorry for your heart break. Be at peace.
RIP Sandy. You will always be missed. I have a couple of pictures when we were kids if the family would like them. I also have many stories..