In Loving Memory of Nancy P. Alexander 3/9/34-12/21/25
It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of Nancy P. Alexander, who left us peacefully on December 21, 2025, at the age of 91.
A long-time resident of Victor, New York, Nancy was born in Crewe, Virginia. Nancy lived a life filled with love, kindness, and generosity. She will be remembered for her spirit of adventure, unwavering compassion, her laughter that could light up a room, and the countless lives she touched through her warmth and wisdom.
Nancy is survived by her sister, Josephine Gardner of Williamsburg, Virginia, her sister-in-law Millie (Buck) Paulett, children Weldon Alexander, Mary (Ed) Heaven, Mike (Cathy) Alexander and Linda (Martin) Loria. Especially dear to Nancy were her grandchildren Weldon (Kristina) Alexander, Christopher (Iris) Heaven, Elissa (Mark) Matos, Jessica Alexander, Sarah (George) Steffler, Megan (Will) Loria, Emily Loria, Michael David Alexander, Colleen (Brad) Alexander, Jason (Mallory) Sandlin and dear family members Debbie Alexander and Karen Elliott, sixteen great grandchildren, many nieces and nephews and treasured friends and family members in New York, Virginia, and Canada who will forever cherish her memory.
Nancy was predeceased by her husband, Wayne D. Alexander, her parents Robert Lee and Louise Starr Paulett, and siblings Ralph, Robert, William, Ethel, Eunice, Charles (Buck), David and Eugene (Genie) Paulett.
A celebration of life will be held on March 7, 2026. Family and friends will be invited to gather and honor a life beautifully lived. A private interment will take place at a future date at St. Patrick’s Cemetery in Victor, NY.
In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, or The Wilmot Cancer Institute, organizations close to Nancy’s heart.
We would like to thank everyone who has reached out following the loss of the center of our family.
We will be contacting friends and family regarding the details of her celebration of life.
The family of Nancy Alexander
With special thanks to Linda Lou – without her and her promise to our Dad, Mom could not have been better taken care of!
Rest easy Mom- with much love and gratitude and teaching us kids the difference between “scooch” and a “skoch” – I still cannot sew!
Mary, I’m so sorry to hear of the passing of your mom. What a wonderful person and I have so, so many wonderful memories of our time in Victorwood. I hope to see you when you are back in Victor. Sending Hugs to the family
Thank you so much Susie – it means a lot to me!
I love you forever my Nanny. We will keep on keepin’ on, Lord love a duck. Rest and be at peace.
Dear Debbie, Jessica, Sarah and Michael,
We are sorry for your loss. She had a beautiful sweet smile. May God grant you peace and console you at this time.
ETERNAL REST GRANT UNTO NANCY, O LORD, AND LET PERPETUAL LIGHT SHINE UPON HER. MAY SHE REST IN PEACE. AMEN.
Love and Prayers, Sheila, Tammy and Deb
Linda, I’m sorry to hear of your Mother’s passing. You were blessed with the sweetest Mom. I fondly remember her kindness and laughter. Spending time at your house was special to me. Your mom always made me feel welcome. Condolences to you and your family from John and I.
We lived across the street from Nancy for many years. She altered my wedding dress. She was always a great neighbor, letting our dogs out when we were delayed, taking Jennifer to school when she missed the bus, etc. A very kind and loving soul. We’ll miss her. Our condolences to her family.
Thank you for the notification. I am ashamed of myself for not keeping better touch. I spent wonderful time with the kindest, funniest and best shrimp macaroni salad maker for Kevin, Paul and our last boss. I will always remember smile and laugh. I’m sorry for your loss.